So this is my last pastor’s column at Lord of Grace. I get a tear in my eye writing it. 15 years of ministry have gone by faster than I thought it would. What started as a Hail Mary to prevent closing turned into growth and rebuilding through different phases of our church’s life.
As I look around the congregation on Sundays, I see a lot of faces that weren’t here when I started – probably a majority. Church hopping is a fact of life these days, and every time a new pastor comes some inevitably decide they just can’t stay. It breaks my heart, of course, because the church is the people, the ekklesia, the community of believers. It’s not supposed to be a collection of individuals who come to see a pastor. Our bonds should be with each other – the people we worship with, pray with, sit in small groups and Bible studies, the people we learn with and even help clean up the property. The church is all of us, which is why it broke my heart all those years ago to see so many people march out when we had to change things around. But, I wish them all well and hope they find a closer relationship to God where they moved. In that time many came, many whom I baptized as kids and watched go on to jobs and college – as well as adults who came to faith here. This is a special place.
One of my hopes is that history does not repeat itself. Transitions are hard, and no pastor is going to do things the way I do. This will feel both good and bad. You will get someone who will have strengths where I had weaknesses, and new ideas and visions for the church. Take these as opportunities to grow, not disappointments at things not how they used to be. Remember that just about nothing now is the way it was 15 years ago. But you still have each other, and, I believe, a mission from God to be a light in this place, to keep living and teaching an open and inclusive Gospel message in a sea of legalism. Our ELCA teachings and theology are a gem, a strength, and an opportunity to reach those not interested in hard-line religion. The area is growing, and Lord of Grace is positioned to reach whole waves of new people. I pray for this.
Some of the big changes I look back on . . .
Redesigning the contemporary worship and getting new music
Adding new families and growing our youth and family numbers
Updating our building and redesigning our sanctuary
Painting the mural by the playground
·The Lent services in different formats: Holden Evening Prayer, Taize, sanctified art
Sending kids to SALCA Bible camp and seeing faith formation
Restarting our preschool (twice) with new staff
Adding some big fellowship events – like the community days and the July Fourth BBQ
Adding new Bible studies for men and women
Starting and restarting SuperYouth – the combined youth group of the ELCA churches in town
Covid – and all the pain that went with it.
Adding livestreaming and technology
All the baptisms of kids. All the baptisms of adults.
The outreach projects and drives for local agencies
And on and on. So many things have come about here through the Spirit’s work. You forget about all them, or take them for granted, as the years go by.
To have a church where my son Johan can get up and dance and people don’t furl their brows and grouse is invaluable. You show through your inclusion the love of Jesus. And that fact that my kids still have faith after growing up at Lord of Grace is a testament to you and the Lord working through you.
To have leaders who have backed me up and supported me, even when I sometimes was doing my job better than others, is invaluable. I pray you support the next pastor as well, so he or she can have a long and fruitful ministry.
To have worship assistants who take care of the details week after week, and provide the music from their hearts, fills us all up. It’s made my job easier, when the worship leaders around me are so great.
It’s one of those protocol things that needs to be said, but when I go I pass the torch, and the new pastor is the one you turn to for spiritual and leadership matters. I won’t be doing weddings or funerals or swinging by for visits. That’s for the next pastor. For me to be involved would undermine them, and make it harder for the church to move forward. I know being in Washington State will make some of that obvious, but this is the digital age.
I want to thank again everyone for all your years of support for me as your pastor, and for my family. It has been a blessing to be your pastor, and to serve here in Marana, and to be with you all through everything.
God Bless,
Pastor Lars